I know as a fact, the only way to protect yourself and others from narcissistic abusers, is to forcibly stop them. This is the second time I have had to protect myself from malignant narcissists and the reason I know how dangerous they can be.
Do not waste your time on their pseudo complaint procedure or the so-called regulators, (unless you want evidence of collusion). They will share information to use to their advantage. By protecting CHA’s malicious intent to cause harm, they are complicit and equally culpable.
Updated 27/08/24 Throughout this website, I have demonstrated a common theme – When dishonesty begets dishonesty: ‘Unethical behaviour is rewarded/promoted, but decency is treated with contempt, leading to the wider public being put at great risk of harm’.
The links above have now turned into a website advertising lawyers! The Scottish govt have altered, decriminalised offences and much more skulduggery, because they are guilty of breaking many laws. Just like the corrupt authority criminals in the UK govt, they believe – if they keep altering and making new laws to protect themselves, and because they corrupted the entire justice system, they will be safe from prosecution. Oh, no they wont; because criminals have no authority and therefore their actions invalidated their right to preach legislation to the rest of us! We have more right to remove them all!
https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/scottish-news/snp-accused-lying-public-reveal-32426309
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/08/26/violent-offenders-increasingly-let-off-with-apology/
“Police are increasingly letting knife and sex offenders escape prosecution if they say sorry, The Telegraph can reveal…”
We really do have criminal, lunatics running the asylum! This is what happens when you allow those in positions of trust to avoid accountability.
When the justice system fails we have to protect ourselves, so why are we just standing by and allowing these authority crooks and the rest of the crime syndicate, to stay in their jobs❓They are making our lives more perilous by the week. We need to act.
30.06.23 Caledonia Housing Association (and their enablers) cannot force tenants to put up with their illegal/unethical and harmful actions.
Most judges/sheriffs in the UK, appear to be dishonest/corrupt now, so trying to find one is virtually impossible. See the rest of my website.
16.09.23 A reputable lawyer would be able to help make sure the Data Protection Act and other laws are upheld, seeing how the ICO themselves, refuse do so. My advice to service users; and anyone who could be a victim of any kind of abuse, please protect yourselves and gather evidence in writing.
Please install CCTV cameras to make sure you and your loved ones are safe as well as for wider estate/community issues It is your right to do so and no-one can take that away from you as long as you follow guidance. The police advised me to do this when I told them about the harassment from CHA. They would have to take you to court to force removal. You have a right to protect yourself.
Guidance on the use of domestic CCTV – GOV.UK (www.gov.uk)
CCTV make good presents. They send alerts/images to mobile phones and can also record conversations. Useful evidence to show a solicitor and if a court hearing is needed. You can also use mobiles to record covertly. You must protect/defend yourself in any way left open to you, as the so-called regulators/authorities are failing to protect the public, by refusing to do the jobs they are paid to do.
Q. When is the law, not the law,
A. When those who break laws, have free access to lawyers, protection from regulators and government, all paid for by the public, but their victims are denied access to legal protection.
Simple Procedure/Legal Aid rules disadvantage the public because it only allows a lawyer for advice. This discriminates against disabled people and others. The police like charities will not go against the govt. You usually have to pay for representation in the court room unless you win. Still speak to one and show the article down below ⬇ by Anne McCrea, to demonstrate what they are up against.
You could argue the point that due to the high risk of corruption, by CHA or anyone connected to them, (especially the so-called upholders of the law I have exposed), it may automatically qualify you for a lawyer, as it is your absolute legal right to a fair and impartial hearing by a fair and impartial sheriff. How can ‘they’ possibly speak about equality, when those who are allowed/encouraged to break laws & have lawyers but their victims are not allowed to defend themselves. That is criminal, and goes against The Universal Declaration of Human Rights:
Article 6 Everyone has the right to recognition everywhere as a person before the law.
Article 7 All are equal before the law and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law. All are entitled to equal protection against any discrimination in violation of this Declaration and against any incitement to such discrimination.
Article 8 Everyone has the right to an effective remedy by the competent national tribunals for acts violating the fundamental rights granted him by the constitution or by law.
Anyone with a strong case should make sure they are represented by an honourable lawyer. (Your attempts to get legal advice may also be blocked by the above authorities and CHA). A Sheriff who shows even a hint of being biased, should be asked to recuse themselves because their decisions will not be sound. But be aware, govts deliberately appoint judges who are ‘friends of govt and corrupt companies’. Courts have been known to use this as a delaying tactic to help perpetrators avoid accountability. Something may later emerge to say there is a conflict of interest and so they will also use it as another delaying tactic to avoid the hearing going ahead. Having knowledge at hand of laws to quote verse and chapter, is also crucial.
CHA’s defence is weakened further now I have publicly exposed them with evidence. They are terrified of being taken to court (along with all those others who have assisted them)!
Remember; Corrupt liars and manipulative frauds; who have no respect for legislation or for people, have no credibility in a court room or anywhere else!
Be aware; any information you share with them and their solicitors prior to the hearing, gives them a golden opportunity to make up stories after the fact. CHA lawyers pressed me for it and then rewrote the facts and did not reply to me, until after the first case management discussion – but I received on the same day, (letter is in Ch.6).
The author Anne McCrea, has kindly given me permission to use this excellent article below on my website. I am very appreciative and cannot thank her enough. It is an extract for Anne’s book Narcissistic And Emotional Abuse; Shattering The Illusion, which is highly recommended reading with everything you need to know about narcissistic personality types. It is very useful for warning your friends and family about the red flags in other toxic relationships too, preferably before they become victims.
I wish I had seen this before I was played by the narcissists in court, as I would have submitted it with my court application along with more evidence and made more attempts to get a lawyer. It would have made a difference to my case if I had got in first. Please learn from my mistakes. Also, see in Ch.1 on the narcissists, manipulative tactics. They will do anything to avoid accountability and have been known to “throw their own children under the bus”. They will also phone lawyers and others to persuade them to obstruct legal access for victims. I know this as a fact. Try looking for lawyers from outside your area.
“If you find yourself in a court case against a narcissist, be prepared for the battle of your life. The narcissist wants to win, by any underhanded means available. Remember that these people are pathological liars and can put on an Oscar winning performance in the courtroom. The narcissist will be one of the most venomous, dangerous opponents one can face in any court of law.
The types of cases you may find yourself involved in are:
Criminal proceedings where you are the victim of a crime committed by the narcissist.
Divorce proceedings, where property/money are in issue.
Custody cases involving children.
Proceedings involving the return of property/money owed.
If the case is one of divorce, the narcissist will present himself or herself as confident and calm, whereas the downtrodden ex-partner will have been run into the ground by this ruthless individual in the months and years leading up to the court case, and often will come across as stressed and lacking confidence. Do not engage in conversation and avoid any eye contact with the narcissist in or outside the court. If there is somewhere private to sit outside the court, find it, so that the narcissist and any of their enablers are not able to intimidate or unnerve you.
Many people facing a narcissist in court worry that the narcissist will manipulate the court and their lies will be believed. It is vital to ensure that your chosen legal representative is up to speed on NPD. A lawyer who is not knowledgeable is likely to be manipulated by the narcissist and may advise you to settle when it is not in your best interests to do so.
The narcissist has pushed you to your limits in the past. Now it’s your turn. Narcissists are likely to react with fury when caught out on their lies and bad behaviour and reveal information which they had no intention of revealing. Their rage may become uncontrollable, with their lawyer doing all in their power to keep them cool, calm and collected (a rather difficult if not impossible task).
The narcissist is likely to have hidden or diverted assets. It is possible to break a narcissist in court, but one needs to be well prepared. It is critical that you are armed with irrefutable, undeniable and corroborated evidence. Avoid giving the narcissist any credible alternative scenarios to the facts. A well-versed lawyer can pose questions to the narcissist in such a way that will take the wind out of their sails ever so subtly.
‘I am led to believe you are quite knowledgeable. Sorry, what is your highest academic qualification? …So, you have no formal qualifications, you never studied for a degree?’
Contradicting or belittling the narcissist’s inflated view of themselves will shatter their fragile self-esteem.
Whilst in the confines of the courtroom, position yourself away from the narcissist and never look in their direction. The fact that you are not looking at them will likely cause a narcissistic wound. The narcissist hates to be ignored.
As we know, the narcissist believes they are above the law and not subject to the limitations of the everyday citizen. As far as they are concerned, they outrank anyone in the courtroom including the judge or magistrate. How dare anyone have the audacity to make them accountable for their actions! Anyone who gives evidence against them will be labelled a liar and corrupt.
Never show any reaction to their words or behaviour. They knew how to push your buttons before and they will try it again. Make sure that these attempts are met with indifference.
It can be difficult to relay to the court just how unacceptable the narcissist’s behaviour can be. Hopefully, they will supply that information to the court and discredit themselves when their fury erupts in the courtroom.
Always tell the truth. Never be tempted to embellish the truth or paint a false picture. Don’t stoop to the narcissist’s level.”
Additional reading
How a narcissist REALLY sees you | Daily Mail Online
Dr Sam Vaknin, 61, from Israel is expert on narcissistic personality disorder
Dr Vaknin has himself been diagnosed twice with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
The Narcissist in Court | HealthyPlace by Sam Vaknin
Quoted from above article:
Question: “How can I expose the lies of the narcissist in a court of law? He acts so convincing!
Answer: You should distinguish the factual pillar from the psychological pillar of any cross-examination of a narcissist or deposition made by him.”
“It is essential to be equipped with absolutely unequivocal, first rate, thoroughly authenticated and vouched for information. The reason is that narcissists are superhuman in their capacity to distort reality by offering highly “plausible” alternative scenarios, which fit most of the facts.
It is very easy to “break” a narcissist – even a well-trained and well-prepared one…”
“No matter what kind of Narc you’re dealing with, they all follow the same pattern, according to mental health professionals. It’s like they all went to the same Narc school.” by Amour Setter.
Excellent in depth reading in link below covering so much you need to know.
Narcissism in the Workplace & How it Destroys Careers (linkedin.com) By Amour Setter
“Unfortunately, leadership positions do not always attract “good people” and by that I mean people with integrity, humility and a willingness to serve the people they are leading. Often times these positions tend to attract aggressive, manipulative and back-stabbing individuals, hell-bent on getting their own way no matter what the cost to the people around them.’’
